{"id":76187,"date":"2024-05-08T16:29:55","date_gmt":"2024-05-08T09:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/?p=76187"},"modified":"2024-05-08T16:29:55","modified_gmt":"2024-05-08T09:29:55","slug":"rules-of-happiness-dont-wait-and-enjoy-life-now","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/rules-of-happiness-dont-wait-and-enjoy-life-now\/","title":{"rendered":"Rules Of Happiness. Don&rsquo;t Wait and Enjoy Life Now"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>1. Learn to like being alone\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>In this life, you can only count on one person to always be there with you: yourself. Note the word \u201cwith.\u201d Yes, your best friend, spouse, and other loved ones will be there FOR you, but they can\u2019t always be WITH you 24\/7.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>If you can learn to like being alone, to really start appreciating your own company more, you will never, ever be lonely again. So, if you only follow one of these rules for happiness, make it this one.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>2. Be present in your life\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>You\u2019re missing so many amazing things by constantly looking at the world through a tiny screen. Contrary to what social media will have you believe life really DOES happen even if you don\u2019t have photographic proof.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>So, turn your phone to silent mode, slip it back in your bag, and actually be present for all of those amazing once-in-a-lifetime moments.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>3. Ignore haters (they don\u2019t really hate you, anyway)\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>We all have to deal with people who don\u2019t like us for one reason or another. It\u2019s just a fact of life. You can never please everyone, and you\u2019ll drive yourself crazy trying. When it comes to dealing with actual haters, remember that their feelings are almost never actually about you, anyway.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Remember, haters hate because they either don\u2019t like themselves, feel like you\u2019re going to take something from them, or just plain want the life that you have. You can\u2019t do anything about any of those things. So just keep living your life. Which brings us to\u2026\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'><strong><span style='\"color:'>4. Remember, the best revenge is to just go on living your life\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Revenge is such a dirty game that never ends well for anyone. Instead of moving forward, it keeps you focused solely on the negative. That\u2019s not good for your mind, body, or soul! Don\u2019t waste your time trying to think of a good way to get back at someone, just go on living your life. It truly is the best form of retribution.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>5. Focus on the lesson, not the pain\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Life isn\u2019t always easy. It\u2019s full of pain and loss, anger and sadness. While you can try to focus on the positive, there\u2019s absolutely no way to avoid the negative. As they say, you can\u2019t have light without dark, right?\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>What you can do when things get tough, though, is look for the lesson. Focus on what this experience is teaching you and what you can take away from it. It won\u2019t take away all of your pain, but it will help you get through the worst of it intact.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>6. Stop justifying the things that make you happy\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Stop calling things \u201cguilty pleasures,\u201d and just call them \u201cpleasures.\u201d If something makes you happy, embrace it. Don\u2019t justify it. You\u2019re allowed to like whatever you want, even if no one else likes it. That goes for everything from romance novels to those cheesy disaster movies on Sci-Fi to ketchup on your eggs.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Don\u2019t ever let anyone make you feel \u201cuncool\u201d for the things you like.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>7. Never let anyone rain on your parade\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Too often, we keep good news to ourselves because we don\u2019t want to deal with nasty comments from jealous people. Things like \u201cmust be nice to be you,\u201d or \u201cyou just got lucky.\u201d You know, comments that make it seem like we don\u2019t actually deserve good things, that we didn\u2019t actually work for them.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Stop giving these people so much power. Sing your good news from the mountaintops and celebrate your wins. Remember, you\u2019re not responsible for anyone else\u2019s happiness but your own, so don\u2019t ever feel bad for living your life.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'><strong><span style='\"color:'>8. Follow at least one big dream, even if it scares you\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>You can\u2019t celebrate your wins if you\u2019re too scared to even play the game in the first place, right? So, find the courage to follow your dreams! If you\u2019re overwhelmed by the idea of a ginormous life change, just take the first step. Just like Chinese philosopher, Lao Tzu said, \u201cThe journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.\u201d\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>9. Measure your life by how much you love, not how much you have\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Stop measuring the value of your life by how much money you have in your wallet or stuff you have in your house. Measure it by how much you love and are loved. No one that matters will remember our shoe collection. They\u2019ll remember the way we made them feel. I know it\u2019s clich\u00e9 to say, but love really is all you need.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>10. Remove toxic people from your everyday life\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Look, unless you plan to live totally off the grid away from society entirely (including online society), there\u2019s really no way to completely avoid toxic people. They\u2019re everywhere! You\u2019ll find them at the grocery store, on social media, just walking down the street. Sometimes, they\u2019re even members of your family.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>So, no, you can\u2019t completely cut toxic people off. You can, however, limit their presence in your everyday life. Fill your life- and your social media feed- with people who bring you joy. Block or unfollow the rest. Just because you have to see Mean Marcy at family reunions doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re obligated to look at all her nasty comments on Facebook. \ud83d\ude0a\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'><strong>11. Be kind to others\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Acts of kindness, no matter how small, have a ripple effect. Whether it\u2019s helping a neighbor, offering a genuine compliment, or volunteering your time, spreading kindness not only brightens someone else\u2019s day but also contributes to your own sense of fulfillment.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>12. Embrace your imperfections\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Life isn\u2019t about achieving perfection; it\u2019s about embracing imperfection. Making mistakes is part of the human experience. Accept them, learn from them, grow stronger, and don\u2019t let the fear of failing hold you back from trying new things.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>13. Adopt an attitude of gratitude\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Having an \u201cattitude of gratitude\u201d can significantly contribute to your overall happiness. So, make sure you take a moment every single day to reflect on the positive things in your life. Even on a really awful day, try to find one thing to be grateful for. It can be as simple as a good cup of coffee, a stranger smiling at you on a busy street, or even just sitting in the warm sun for a few minutes.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>14. Keep your circle small\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>The older I get, the smaller my circle becomes. I value quality over quantity. Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. Foster deep connections with those who share your values and encourage your personal growth, not those who hold you back (or talk behind your back).\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>15. Find joy in the little things\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>The world is full of tiny wonders. Learn to find joy in the little things. Whether it\u2019s the smell of fresh rain, the comfort of a cozy blanket, or even just managing to fold a fitted sheet right on the first try, take time to savor these small moments that bring genuine joy.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>16. Make self-care a priority\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Your well-being is crucial. Dedicate time to self-care rituals that rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit. Whether it\u2019s reading a good book, taking a leisurely walk, or practicing meditation, make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine. Remember, self-care is NOT selfish.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>17. Learn to Let Go\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Holding onto grudges can weigh you down. Practice the art of forgiveness, not for others, but for yourself. Letting go of resentment and anger frees up mental space for more positive and fulfilling experiences.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>18. Embrace Change\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Life is dynamic, and change is inevitable. Instead of resisting it, embrace change it as an opportunity for growth. Adaptability is a valuable skill that allows you to navigate life\u2019s twists and turns with resilience and a positive outlook.\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>19. Learn something new every day\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Cultivate a curious mindset and embrace opportunities for learning. Whether it\u2019s acquiring new skills, exploring different cultures, or delving into a hobby, continuous learning adds depth and richness to your life. There are so many ways to learn something new every day, so there\u2019s really no excuse not to!\n<p><span style='\"color:' font-size:><strong>20. Write your own story!\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Last, but so very far from least, be the author of your own story. Choose your own adventure and fill it with characters that make you happy. Make it a tale without an antagonist. Most important of all, never let anyone try to steal your pen and change the tale to fit their own narrative.\n<p><span style='\"font-size:'>Remember, only YOU can make yourself happy. No one else can do it for you. If you follow even half of these rules for happiness, you\u2019ll be well on your way to living a far more blissful life.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Learn to like being alone In this life, you can only count on one person to always be there with you: yourself. Note the word \u201cwith.\u201d Yes, your best friend, spouse, and other loved ones will be there FOR you, but they can\u2019t always be WITH you 24\/7. 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