{"id":73259,"date":"2024-04-09T16:41:32","date_gmt":"2024-04-09T09:41:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/?p=73259"},"modified":"2024-04-12T14:02:03","modified_gmt":"2024-04-12T07:02:03","slug":"being-a-solo-mom-is-exhausting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/being-a-solo-mom-is-exhausting\/","title":{"rendered":"Being A Solo Mom Is Exhausting"},"content":{"rendered":"
Being a solo mom is more exhausting than anything you\u2019ll ever do. Believe it. I want you to know I see you, you are doing a great job, and you\u2019re appreciated.\n No matter how many people you have around you, being a Mom is hard. Of course, it is! Parenting is some heavy-duty business. Today though, I\u2019m talking directly to solo moms.\n Dear Solo Moms Everywhere\n I know all the things you have to do every single day just to keep all the balls in the air.\n 1. All the errands are on you. 2. There is no one there to tag team those middle of the night throw-ups. 3. No back-up. 4. There\u2019s no, \u201cGo Ask Your Dad\u201d. 5. You have to remember ALL the things. 6. You also do all the worrying. Being a mom is exhausting for everyone. But when you have little to no help doing it, it\u2019s even more tiring. Cheers to all the single moms that are rocking it! \u2665\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Being a solo mom is more exhausting than anything you\u2019ll ever do. Believe it. I want you to know I see you, you are doing a great job, and you\u2019re appreciated. No matter how many people you have around you, being a Mom is hard. Of course, it is! Parenting is some heavy-duty business. Today\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":73262,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[642],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-73259","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-moral-story"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/BEING-A-SOLO-MOM-IS-EXHAUSTING.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73259","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=73259"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/73259\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/73262"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=73259"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=73259"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=73259"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nWhether your kiddo needs a notebook or 2 dozen cupcakes the next day for school, it\u2019s all on you. You can\u2019t look across the table at someone and ask if they\u2019ll run to the store and pick them up.\n
\nA little one getting sick in the middle of the night is THE WORST. Being a solo parent means there is no one to bring you an extra towel or soothe them while you change the clothes they just soiled.\n
\nThose days when you just really need to get to bed early, because you\u2019ve caught a cold, have an early morning, or just are flat out exhausted from a long week; there\u2019s no one to take over for you.\n
\nSeriously, it\u2019s a great cop-out. One that is used all the time because hey, sometimes you don\u2019t want to answer the question or decide the outcome. \u2018Go ask someone else\u2019, is a great response. But single moms are the final decision maker, all day, every day.\n
\nIt would be great if there was someone to share the burden of remembering. If someone misses a dentist appointment or forgets that yesterday at school was Hat Day, it\u2019s all on you.\n
\nLike all moms, you worry. It would be amazing to have someone to tell me it\u2019s OK and that I\u2019m doing a good job. It would be equally as nice for someone to carry all this worry and guilt.\n