{"id":121599,"date":"2025-04-10T12:02:54","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T05:02:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/?p=121599"},"modified":"2025-04-10T12:02:54","modified_gmt":"2025-04-10T05:02:54","slug":"expert-tells-parents-to-ask-babys-consent-when-changing-diapers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/expert-tells-parents-to-ask-babys-consent-when-changing-diapers\/","title":{"rendered":"Expert tells parents to ask baby\u2019s consent when changing diapers&hellip;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Australian Educator&rsquo;s Call to Teach Infant Consent Sparks Global Dialogue on Parenting and Autonomy\u200b\n<p>In a world where parenting philosophies continually evolve, Australian sexuality educator Deanne Carson has ignited a global conversation by suggesting that parents introduce the concept of consent to their infants. Carson proposes that during diaper changes, parents might say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m going to change your nappy now, is that OK?&rdquo; and then pause to observe the baby&rsquo;s non-verbal cues, such as eye contact or body movements, to acknowledge their emerging autonomy. \u200b\n</p><h3>A Groundbreaking Approach to Early Childhood Development\n</h3><p>Carson&rsquo;s perspective stems from a belief that fostering a &ldquo;culture of consent&rdquo; should begin at birth. By recognizing and responding to a baby&rsquo;s non-verbal signals, parents can lay the foundation for mutual respect and understanding.\n</p><p><img fetchpriority='\"high\"' decoding='\"async\"' class='\"aligncenter' size-full wp-image-121604 src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/legendstitch.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2025%5C/04%5C/ask-baby-diaper.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"1080\"' height='\"1313\"' srcset='\"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/ask-baby-diaper.jpg' https: sizes='\"(max-width:'>\n</p><p>This approach aligns with philosophies like Resources for Infant Educarers (RIE), which emphasize treating infants as unique individuals and involving them in their own caregiving routines. \u200b\n</p><h3>Global Reactions: A Spectrum of Opinions\n</h3><p>The suggestion has elicited a wide range of reactions worldwide. Some parents and experts commend the idea, viewing it as a progressive step toward acknowledging children&rsquo;s autonomy from a young age. They argue that even preverbal children can benefit from an environment where their responses are valued, potentially reducing the likelihood of future harm and promoting a deeper understanding of personal boundaries. \u200b\n</p><p><img decoding='\"async\"' class='\"aligncenter' size-full wp-image-121603 src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/legendstitch.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2025%5C/04%5C/shutterstock_651933877-768x512-1.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"768\"' height='\"512\"' srcset='\"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/shutterstock_651933877-768x512-1.jpg' https: sizes='\"(max-width:'>\n</p><p>Conversely, many express skepticism, questioning the practicality of expecting infants to comprehend or respond to such prompts. Critics argue that while the intent is commendable, the execution might be unrealistic, given that babies lack the cognitive and verbal skills to engage in this form of consent. Some fear that adhering strictly to this approach could lead to neglecting essential caregiving tasks, such as timely diaper changes, potentially resulting in discomfort or health issues for the child. \u200b\n</p><h3>The Heart of the Debate: Respect vs. Practicality\n</h3><p>At its core, the debate touches on a profound question: How can parents balance the desire to respect a child&rsquo;s emerging autonomy with the practicalities of caregiving?\n</p><p><img decoding='\"async\"' class='\"aligncenter' size-full wp-image-121602 src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/legendstitch.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2025%5C/04%5C/shutterstock_1827697502.jpg%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"1000\"' height='\"667\"' srcset='\"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/shutterstock_1827697502.jpg' https: sizes='\"(max-width:'>\n</p><p>Experts suggest that while it&rsquo;s crucial to introduce concepts of consent, parents should also be attuned to the developmental stages of their children. Using appropriate language, observing non-verbal cues, and fostering an environment where children feel safe and valued are essential steps in this delicate balancing act. \u200b\n</p><h3>A Call for Compassionate Dialogue\n</h3><p>As this discussion unfolds, it&rsquo;s vital to approach differing opinions with empathy and understanding. The journey of parenting is deeply personal, and what works for one family may not suit another.\n</p><p><img loading='\"lazy\"' decoding='\"async\"' class='\"aligncenter' size-full wp-image-121605 src="%5C%22https:%5C/%5C/legendstitch.com%5C/wp-content%5C/uploads%5C/2025%5C/04%5C/Screen-Shot-2025-04-10-at-12.01.28.png%5C%22" alt='\"\"' width='\"552\"' height='\"606\"' srcset='\"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Screen-Shot-2025-04-10-at-12.01.28.png' https: sizes='\"(max-width:'>\n</p><p>By sharing experiences, staying informed, and remaining open to new ideas, society can continue to evolve in its approach to nurturing the next generation, ensuring that all children grow up in environments that honor their dignity, promote their well-being, and respect their inherent worth.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"</p><p>Australian Educator&rsquo;s Call to Teach Infant Consent Sparks Global Dialogue on Parenting and Autonomy\u200b In a world where parenting philosophies continually evolve, Australian sexuality educator Deanne Carson has ignited a global conversation by suggesting that parents introduce the concept of consent to their infants. Carson proposes that during diaper changes, parents might say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m going\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":121604,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[670],"tags":[693],"class_list":{"0":"post-121599","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-news","8":"tag-news"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/ask-baby-diaper.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=121599"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121599\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":121606,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121599\/revisions\/121606"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=121599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=121599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/legendstitch.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=121599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}</p></strong></p>