\nWe are normal people. When we go to someone else\u2019s house, we want to see each part of the house. Sometimes we talk about interesting things about the house to our friends.\n
Let\u2019s see things around your home that can make any guest feel awkward.\n
It can be that you just love reading books about hypnosis or healing, but some guests might find it suspicious. There is no need to hide your passions from your best friends, but if you\u2019re expecting people who are not really close to you, these books should be removed.\n
A couple of years ago I tried to arrange a meeting between my friend and one of my acquaintances. They communicated normally until the moment the guy invited her to his home. My friend called me, hysterical, saying, \u201cI entered his room, and there was a book on urine therapy on his bed. How am I supposed to talk to him now?\u201d\n
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Movie characters can stay at someone else\u2019s house for a day and not go to the bathroom, but real people have physiological needs. It can be pretty awkward if there is neither a toilet brush nor toilet paper in the bathroom.\n
A guest shouldn\u2019t have to go searching through your shelves trying to hide the traces of their \u201ctoilet crimes.\u201d A good host will leave the necessary things in plain sight or explain where everything can be found.\n
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Many of us have faced the situation where colleagues argue about the temperature in the office \u2014 some find it too hot, others find it too cold. But if we can get angry at it in the office, we often endure this inconvenience out of politeness at a get-together in someone else\u2019s home.\n
The comfortable temperature for most people is 68\u201472\u00b0F. You can keep this in mind and watch your guests \u2014 it\u2019s easy to figure out whether a person feels too hot or too cold.\n
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Not all guests will be delighted with the fact that you put your white fluffy cat on their black trousers. Some people are generally afraid of animals and can get stressed out from just meeting your tiny Chihuahua. Many cats and dogs are also afraid of strangers. Sometimes, it\u2019s better to leave the pet in another room for the good of everyone.\n
We were visiting my husband\u2019s relatives. They invited me to sit in an armchair and put tea and cookies on the table. So, I was sitting and drinking some pretty bad tea, when suddenly a fluffy cat jumped up on the table and put its tail on the saucer with the cookies. The hosts were really happy when this happened, but I was far from being delighted. I said, \u201cHe put his tail down on the cookies.\u201d And they replied, \u201cWell, this is his table, his place, he ALWAYS lies here.\u201d This means, they put my tea in the cat\u2019s corner, this is so disrespectful toward guests. \u00a9 Vera \/ AdMe.ru\n
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A guest doesn\u2019t need to know that the host wears boxers with Smurfs, or that the hostess prefers panty liners with a chamomile scent. Personal hygiene products can be temporarily hidden in the bedside table, and the drying rack with the linens can be taken away to another room.\n
A hairbrush also deserves to be stored separately. A girl posted a video on TikTok about how she cleaned and washed her hair brushes. At the end of the video, she asked subscribers if they were doing the same. Some followers said that they didn\u2019t bother to do it at all, but most of them were shocked that someone could not clean their hairbrushes. So leaving a brush with your hair on it in the bathroom will make the majority of guests feel awkward.\n
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If the host gets up in the middle of the dinner to wash the dishes or grabs a rag in a panic when a crumb falls to the floor, guests might feel uncomfortable. They may think that you are reproaching them for being clumsy, or that you want to say goodbye to them as soon as possible. Just relax and enjoy your party, and do the cleaning when everyone is gone.\n
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If your guest is staying overnight, the polite thing to do would be to provide them with a shelf or a bedside table where they can put their things. It\u2019s unlikely that anyone will be pleased with the prospect of leaving their clothes on the floor or removing clothes left by the hosts to make space for their own.\n
If a person is visiting you for a couple of hours, it\u2019s worth making room for their coat and shoes on the entry rack.\n
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Nowadays, we don\u2019t keep beautiful tableware just for guests. But this doesn\u2019t mean that a person will be pleased to eat from a poorly washed plate or drink from a mug with brown stains. By the way, tea and coffee stains can be easily removed with baking soda.\n
Once I was visiting a friend. She took my plate, put it on the floor, and called her dog over. The dog came running and began to lick this plate. I don\u2019t go there anymore. \u00a9 Mila \/ AdMe.ru\n
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When a person enters someone else\u2019s bathroom for the first time, a lot of questions swarm in their head. How can I dry my hands? Is it okay to take that big fluffy towel or is that brown rag intended for guests in this house?\n
Hang a separate clean towel in the bathroom before guests arrive. Ideally, if you place it near the sink, they will immediately understand that they can use it.\n
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Imagine: you walk into someone\u2019s apartment, stumble over scattered shoes, crash into a bicycle leaning against the wall, and end your fall by flipping a nightstand with a flower pot. This is not the way a friendly gathering should start.\n
The host should clear space in the hallway in advance, and if you live in a private house, clean up the porch too. It would be a good idea to wipe the door handle because it\u2019s almost always dirtier than it looks.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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